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A 6 week course that will empower YOU to weave body safety concepts into the every day life of your young children
Body Safety Education for Parents
Discussing a sensitive topic with your child can feel overwhelming, especially with so much information out there. You might worry about getting it wrong and impacting your child’s sense of safety, making it hard to know where to start.
Are you struggling to educate your child, between the ages of 2-8, on body safety?
It feels like such a sensitive topic that you're fearful you will ruin your child's innocences if you don't get it right.
It is overwhelming to talk about such a sensitive subject with a child
It is a challenge to educate your child on a topic you were not taught as you have no experience to draw from.
You were never given Body Safety education growing up
Navigating this large and complex topic can feel like a overwhelming task.
You're worried about saying the wrong thing
If you're anything like my current clients...
Empowering Parents, Protecting Futures.
Hello, I’m a registered psychologist working in the field of childhood trauma, specialising in sexual abuse. With a Master’s degree in Educational Psychology and extensive professional development, research, and years of therapeutic practice, I bring a wealth of expertise to this space.
When my husband and I welcomed our daughter three years ago, I integrated my knowledge into our parenting. Together, we learned and implemented body safety practices in our daily lives. Since then, I made it my mission to share this life-changing information with others.
I navigate body safety education both professionally and personally, living this journey alongside my own children and husband, as well as my students.
Meet your Psychologist
Victoria Barendsen
Naturally weave body safety education into your child’s early development.
Grow and nurture a child that respects their body autonomy and the autonomy of others.
Avoid any awkward sex talks as body safety becomes a natural part of their development.
I can't wait to share everything I've learned throughout my career as a psychologist and my personal experience as a mother of two to help you feel empowered to educate your child about body safety. I will support you to:
Body Safety Education is Simple.
Let me show you how.
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Expert guidance, practical strategies and engaging activities so you can begin weaving body safety education into your everyday parenting.
Foundations of Body Safety
Introducing the...
Integrate body safety practices into everyday routines seamlessly, without overwhelm.Build your confidence in discussing sensitive topics such as consent and private parts with your child.
Foster open, trusting communication between you and your child, creating a safe space for challenging conversations in the years to come.
Empower your child with healthy boundaries, teaching them to respect their own body and others'.
Confidently integrate body safety practices into everyday routines seamlessly, without overwhelm.
Inside this course you'll learn how to teach your child body safety in a way that is fun, age-appropriate, and easy to understand. Also, learn to....
Consent Basics
Warning Signs
Say "No" with Confidence
Safe vs Unsafe Touch
In this module on consent, you'll learn how to teach your child the fundamental principles of consent, empowering them to confidently express their boundaries. By the end of this module, you'll be equipped to help your child understand their body boundaries and express them clearly.
Consent
MODULE THREE
Personal Boundaries
Body Autonomy Limits
Anatomically Correct Labels
Private Parts
In this module on body autonomy, you'll learn why it's important and how to teach it to your child. You'll cover private parts, using anatomically correct terms, setting personal boundaries, and understanding the limits of autonomy. Gain practical tools to help your child understand body ownership, respect boundaries, and recognise when safety and health take priority.
Body Autonomy
MODULE TWO
Emotional Literacy
Empathy & Respect
Building Trust
Your Emotions
In this module, you'll discover why managing emotions is essential for body safety. You'll explore your own emotions around the topic, teach emotional literacy, foster empathy, and build trust with your child. You will gain practical tools to navigate emotions, model healthy behavior, and create a safe, open environment for communication.
Emotions
MODULE ONE
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Safe Adults
Clear Body Communication
Safe Sharing Space
Modelling Behaviour
In this module on safe circles, you’ll learn how to help your child identify trusted adults who will listen and support them. You'll explore the importance of modelling respectful behaviour and clear body communication to build trust and openness. By creating a safe space for sharing, you’ll foster an environment where your child feels secure to express themselves.
Safe Circle
MODULE SIX
Parent-free Activities
Private vs Public Spaces
Sleepovers & Play Dates
In this module on places and spaces, you'll teach your child the difference between private and public spaces and what behaviors are appropriate in each. You'll also learn how to make sleepovers and playdates safer while helping your child identify safe adults and environments. By the end, you’ll confidently guide your child through different settings with safety in mind.
Places & Spaces
MODULE FIVE
Child vs Adult Harm
Greetings
Secrets vs Surprises
Grooming
In this module, you'll learn how to guide your child in navigating social interactions with confidence and awareness You will help your child build a strong sense of body autonomy. By the end, you'll have the tools to foster safe, respectful interactions and open communication, empowering your child to navigate social situations confidently.
People & Interactions
MODULE FOUR
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Private psychologist support for body safety education with me would cost you over $2,500. but today you can access the same expertise and tools for...
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Children's book recommendations to support the learning of each lesson.
Book Recommendations
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Small behavioural, language or mindset shifts you can make right away for instant implementation.
Small Shifts
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An interactive learning activity to complete alongside your child.
Implementation Activity
Every lesson will include...
You can achieve this and more! I’ll be there to guide you every step of the way, providing expert support and resources to make the journey simple and enjoyable
Relaxed and proactive in having ongoing conversations about safety
worried and hesitant, waiting for issues to arise before talking about safety.
Reassured with language shifts that make difficult conversations easier
Fearful of saying the wrong thing
Clear on how to integrate body safety education seamlessly into daily life
Unsure where to start the body safety journey
Empowered with simple, practical strategies for prevention
Overwhelmed by the complexity of Body safety education.
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In just 6 weeks, you’ll join hundreds of empowered parents confidently protecting their children. You'll go...
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Yes, the course is completely self-paced, allowing you to learn at your own convenience. You can access the lessons and resources anytime, fitting them into your schedule in a way that works best for you and your family.
Can I learn in my own time? Is it self-paced?
This course is flexible and easy to fit into your schedule. Each week, you'll get access to four short 10-minute video lessons. Along with each lesson, there are activities and resources you can complete at your own pace. In total, the course takes about 1-2 hours per week, including watching the videos and doing activities with your child.
I am super busy! How much time do I need to commit to each week?
This course is designed for parents of children aged 2 to 8 years of age. It is designed to provide a strong foundation on Body Safety knowledge that you're able to build upon as your child grows.
What age group is this course designed for?
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Absolutely! The course encourages both parents or caregivers to be involved in teaching body safety, so your partner is welcome to participate.
Can my partner or co-parent take the course with me?
Yes, you will have lifetime access to all course materials, allowing you to revisit them as your child grows and the conversations evolve. However, the weekly live calls are only available for the 6-week duration of your enrollment.
Will I have ongoing access to the materials?
There are weekly live calls where you can ask questions and get real-time feedback. You also have access to email support throughout the course. If you need more individualised guidance, there's an option to purchase one-on-one video sessions with me for tailored advice.
What if I have specific questions or need personalised support?
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Mother - twins 5 years old
Mother - 4 year old
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I would absolutely recommend this course to other parents of young children. My son is four years old and I have found it really useful to learn more about body safety. My main reason for recommending this course would be to enhance the understanding of body safety from basic things as to how to label body parts to more in-depth knowledge as to how to respond to harm done to your child or even having more awareness about sexual harm.
I am so excited that this content is now accessible for the wider audience in a way that is easy to access, and easy to understand. It is unique in a way that it is comprehensive and addresses key parts of body safety. And to some extent sexual development in young children and I think this is a topic every parent should know more about.
Love, love, loved this course!
What really stood out to me was the clear explanation around consent needing to be both verbal and non-verbal. It made such a difference in how I approach conversations with my kids. Also, the distinction between safe and unsafe touch vs. good and bad touch. It's so important to stop layering shame onto these topics, and this course hit the nail on the head with how to address them.
Victoria’s style felt so grounded. She was relatable, genuine, and truly came across as being herself. It made learning these crucial topics not just easier but more empowering.
I would recommend this course to any parent who wants to teach their children about safety in a clear, approachable, and positive way!
I really enjoyed this course—it has been incredibly helpful. I've started using correct anatomical terminology at home, and it sparked an insightful conversation with the children in my care. I was surprised by how little we had ever discussed human anatomy before, but it made so much sense after hearing Victoria explain it.
I’ve learned a lot of new concepts I hadn’t considered before, and I’d recommend this course to any parent or caregiver looking to approach body safety with confidence.
The language, content, and approach in this course are so relevant and easy to digest. Everything is explained clearly and delivered in a way that feels comforting and sensitive. It has sparked so many professional and personal conversations for me, highlighting how much more we need to be talking about these topics.
Having worked in this space for decades, raised my own children, and now supporting my grandchildren, I was blown away by the new concepts this course introduced. It completely shifted my perception.
I highly recommend it to anyone with young children, those working with kids, or grandparents.
Over the years, I've had the privilege of working with hundreds of parents, and here's what they've shared about their experience...
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Do you want to raise your child to feel confident in saying "no" and recognising when something isn’t right?
Does the thought of talking about body safety make you uncomfortable, but you know it's an essential conversation?
Are you aware of the dangers in the world and determined to equip your child with the skills to protect themselves?
Do you want to raise your child with healthy boundaries but need guidance on how to have age-appropriate conversations?
Are you a parent of a child under 8 who wants to teach body safety but feels unsure of where to begin?
You Belong in The Foundations of Body Safety If...
If you’ve made it this far, you know how important it is to protect your child. In just a few weeks, you could confidently teach them about body safety, consent, and boundaries, knowing they’ll have a strong foundation of safety knowledge. Don’t wait—this is your chance to take action. Sign up now and start empowering your child today.
If we don't talk about body safety, we inadvertently keep silent, and silence is what enables sexual abuse to occur.
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